Stay Together For Your Children's Sake

If you're a parent and your not in a volatile situation I ask that you stay together as a family for your children. What you are about to read may come off as brash,but I make no apology. Parents stop being selfish when it comes to your own happiness, think of your children's happiness first. More people than not, are in relationships that involve kids, this relationship is called a family unit.Some parents don't think about what is best for a child, you studly want what is best for you! and to hell with the children. Parents stop your selfish cop outs! hang in there for the children's sake,children need both a great mother and an excellent father.Children need to be loved,revered,taken care of and made to feel secure at all times,and in every stage of their development. If you leave the family structure without just cause you are opening the doors of doom on your own flesh and blood. Children suffer great losses when a parent walks away from the home,the child that is left behind will begin to feel as though it's their fault that you have gone and not returned.This is when a child's attitude will begin to change.Your child's outlook on life may become skewed.Kids are very needy and they crave guidance and support weather you realize this fact or not. It is your duty as a parent to raise your child in love and in truth....truth to the facts of life,the understanding of what it means to be a child, how to act accordingly and also what it takes to become well rounded adult.

It's not up to society to raise your children! but I tell you this....in many cases if you leave your child behind and your child gets into trouble.....society will raise them for you in prison. Don't you know that if your child gets in trouble it's all your fault . Yes indeed it is,whatever a child does good or bad it is due to the parent (s) If your child gets good grades it's due to you! if your child is a drug addict it is due to you! if your child is a football star it is due to you! If your child has a gun it is due to you! if your child is a doctor it is due to you! everything that a child is or will become is on the parent......please don't fight me on the truth. Like the Bible tell us their blood is on our hands, if you don't know what that means I will tell you. It simply means whatever your child does that is not productive and leads them down the wrong paths in his or her life is the caregivers... Parents fault. What's so hard about staying with the mom /dad of your kids? so the looks are gone,so what she has gained weight,so what she's a nag....and her momma don't like you. So what he hangs with his boys too much,so what he cheated on you twice,so what he can't find a good paying job...so what! you can still maintain if you both work together for the good of the family.Parents remember you are the people that the child is looking up to. Yes children are very smart and they do get it! but you as a parent don't have to let your kids know every little thing that goes on in grown folks stuff. some things you must hide for the sanity of the child. Yes you would like for the situation to be like a fairy tail relationship, but it's not and many will never see that one come true.

Parents do you know that you will turn your children into a dis-functional mess if you walk out that door.The mental scares that you will inflict on your little ones,it will take years of redirection and counseling to try and heal broken bonds that run deep. I have seen many parents walk away from their own and start a new....lol what a joke! I will repeat ,if you are not in a life threatening situation stay with your own family. It is your responsibility to make it work. If you are thinking of leaving please stay for the children. Your child support check can't tuck Sally Mae in bed at night, and your weekend visits won't stop Billy Bob from skipping school. Your kids need you in that house with them. I'm all about family, it's right for our country....I won't explain that because most of you get it,and if you missed it you're already gone.

God Bless