Six Important Keys you should know when dealing with children

There are six keys a parent should know when raising children. The first key is Patients. Being a parent is a 24 hour job! and you must be committed to your role as a parent, for some parents having patients is a breeze ,and for others it will take key steps to becoming a patient parent. First key step: try to relax by deep breathing exercises.Second key step: play your favorite soothing music.Third key step: call a close friend and tell them about your day. Your child needs you to wait for them in their developmental world,...Please don't tell me you didn't know that kids live in their own little world.!and is separate and apart form us adults. The waiting game teaches you the care giver to develop patients. All kids are different, The second key step is Endurance. As a parent your child will count on you for guidance,and support, you must never give up on your child...no matter what a circumstance may come your way. Many parents today just toss a child aside like an old worn out shoe! and in doing so you're basically telling your child... that you do not want them around,this will lead to long lasting, negative, adult behavior. the key here is to show your child that you are going to be there for them whenever they will need you.Hang in there parents! the third key step is Time . we are a very fast pasted society! almost everything we do has to meet our hurry up and do deadline! and if this deadline is not accomplished, all walls will crumble and fall.When it comes to the children you must take your time, place them before any deadline that you feel you must meet.First key step:make time for your child, second key step: put all other people,places,and things in your to do list on hold. Your child needs full attention from their parents,when you give undivided ,individual attention to kids they will learn that no person is more meaningful to you but them.In doing so you will have a very self assured child.Fourth key step is :Love now this for many parents is the big one! most people do not know how to show love,or where to begin.First key step: love develops 1) as a think process...2) then it slides into the feelings stage,3) and slowly turns into doing,Now the doing turn of love is very critical,because it requires work!! you must as a parent work at learning to love what you have birthed,adopted and invited into your life....you may think to yourself '' I KNOW HOW TO LOVE MY CHILD".....then please do tell me why are so many of our children abused ,neglected,and killed at the hands of their own parents? doing love is so important. Becoming a doer takes skill. The fifth key is Understanding .Parents you will have to be very understanding when it comes to teaching concepts,learning skills,growing up baby , when dealing with your children. first and only key step: Remember the time when you at this wonderful age.This is the only key step that I will give you on understanding,The value here is too.... remember. The sixth and final key step is Communication .Talk to! talk with! talk about! and talk for! your children, They need your voice. Ask questions...there is no wrong question! that you can ask your child . Ask about their day,how was school. Did they enjoy dinner,what movie would they like to see. It may all sound very simplistic to you ,but in talking and listening to what your child has to say is crucial and is a turning key in their lives. Now that you have your six keys...you are on the road to becoming an awesome!powerful! well equipped! parent.